Is there such a thing as a perfect relationship? A relationship that has no fights or issues? It would be nice, but in reality, it is almost impossible to have that type of relationship. Different beliefs, interests, and habits can cause small issues between two people, no matter how happy they are. The truth is while you can’t have a perfect relationship without a few issues here and there, you can have a relationship that allows you to get through those issues smoothly and maintain a happy relationship.
Understand Your Differences
Many issues in relationships happen because of differences in opinions. For example, you may think that the law of attraction is real and want to live by its rules, and your partner may think that the law of attraction is hooey and laughs at you when you mention it. There is no right or wrong person. There are only two different opinions that are clashing now. Once you realize that you both see things differently, and then you will be able to recognize that your partner is coming from a different place than you, and that there is no other place they can come from. They have become who they are from their experiences in life, and they are not wrong, they are just different than you. Once you start to allow them to be themselves, you will stop expecting them to believe or think a certain way, and instead you will allow them to be themselves. Then you will be able to eliminate a ton of issues that cause your perfect relationship to suffer. You will be on your way to a near perfect relationship that has two individual, unique and happy people in it.
Support Each Other
In a perfect relationship, support would be abundant. Part of understanding that your partner has different beliefs, habits, and ideas than you is supporting them in them. You may not believe in the law of attraction, but that doesn’t mean that you should make them feel bad because they do. If you do not support your partner then they will feel disconnected from you. There are so many people in life who already don’t support them in their decisions, goals, and thoughts, and you are supposed to be the one person they can always count on for an encouraging word. When you don’t come through, then the bond that holds you together can start to weaken. However, if you offer your partner encouraging words and let them go after their goals and dreams, then they will feel as though they have a solid support system, even if the rest of the world doesn’t believe in them. If you want to have a perfect relationship that stays strong in the tough times, then support will help you stay united. This unity is a special part of a healthy intimate relationship and without it; a relationship can start to crumble fast.
Spend Time Together
Work, school, family, friends, TV, Internet, and so much more can take away from your time with your partner. Too much time apart can cause a feeling of disconnect in the relationship. When issues arise, that disconnect can cause a lot of problems. In a perfect relationship, you would enjoy spending time together and make time for it every day. You would make time between work and bedtime to spend a few hours together. Quality time is what counts here. Not just watching TV together, but talking, sharing, and laughing. Spending quality time together allows you to share your lives together. It allows you to feel as if you are growing together day by day.
How to deal with a Selfish Girlfriend
1. Point Out
2. Talk it Out
3. Draw Boundaries
4. Offer Help
5. Provide Motivation
6. Give her an Ultimatum
Share Your Common Interests
Spending time together each day is important. And spending time together doing things that you both love is different, but equally important. Common interests are what brought you two together. They are what got you talking during that first meeting, and they are what caused you to want a first, second, and tenth date. Without common interests, you would never have gotten together. Now that you are in a relationship, they are still important! Sharing your interests together allows you to connect on a different level. When you participate in something you are interested in by yourself, you feel good afterwards. When you participate in something you are interested in with your partner, you feel good about yourself and your partner afterwards. In addition, sharing a part of your life with your partner is essential to keep the bond strong. Without it, you can start to feel as two separate units who don’t have much in common. That feeling can bring any relationship down and cause issues, both small and big.
In conclusion, a perfect relationship does not exist. There will always be issues that arise in the relationship. However, once you understand that you are both unique, and you start to support that uniqueness, you will have a better time working through the majority of issues that arise. Spending time together will also help you strengthen your bond in the perfect relationship for a happier and healthier unity.